Responsibility. That’s what most parents list as the No. 1 quality they want their kids to tát have. No matter their age, race or political leaning, parents want kids who can be relied on. The ability to tát work hard also makes most parents’ wish list. After that, opinions begin to tát diverge quite markedly, with more conservative folks listing religious faith and more liberal types opting for helping others as the attribute they most want to tát their children to tát develop.
The results come from a new Pew Research study of parenting attitudes among a nationally representative sample of more kêu ca 3000 adults (Pew has convened a special American Trends Panel to tát poll regularly) who were asked about the relative importance of 12 values kids need to tát learn. They were also asked to tát list their top three. A full 93% said teaching children to tát be responsible is “especially important” and 55% rated it as one of their top three.
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In order of most to tát least popular, parents ranked the relative importance of each attribute this way: responsibility, hard work, helping others, good manners, independence, creativity, empathy for others, tolerance, persistence, curiosity, obedience and religious faith.
While religious faith was not rated as important to tát as many of the respondents, their tư vấn for it was deep; it was often one of the most important things these parent wanted to tát instill in their kids.
The results could be a barometer for the future as the nation becomes more polarized. Pew speculates that the sharp political divisions between people could evolve into cultural divisions as parents try to tát pass on increasingly different sets of values to tát their children. For example, while “being well-mannered” rates high among nearly all groups, it doesn’t feature as strongly among the most liberal, who rank “empathy” and “curiosity” much higher.
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Meanwhile, “obedience” is much higher up the list for consistently conservative parents kêu ca any other type.
Part of what’s behind the differences is education. Fewer kêu ca half of college graduates put much emphasis on obedience or religious faith among their children, but regard tolerance, persistence and curiosity more highly kêu ca bởi parents with less education. Having kids who help others is more important to tát high-school-educated parents kêu ca it is to tát any other category.
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While these differences are interesting, one could argue that several of them may be a matter of interpretation. To some, good manners are a mix of outmoded behaviors that symbolize membership in an upper class. To others, they are a mix of practices established to tát ensure that people are taking others around them into consideration — also known as showing empathy. Similarly, religious faith often leads people into activities that help others. Different motivation, but with an almost identical outcome.
In fact, one of the biggest takeaway from the Pew parenting study is that, despite beliefs or education or race, a lot of parents want the same things for their kids.
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